INKOVEMA Newsletter

Mediation and conflict management

# 33

A. Key topics:

– Conflicts at home – Domestic violence

– Escalated conflict management in life and love relationships

– Violence against women and men

B. Concepts for mediation:

– Part 1 – The TA concept of passivity – passive thinking

Domestic violence

Domestic violence is still a frequent Form of escalated conflict management in life and love relationships. And it can still be confidently called Taboo subjectwhich is by no means backed up by reliable figures, data and facts. In the following, we have tried to comprehensive, up-to-date and balanced links on all sides on the subject. They are not always encouraging in content, sometimes a violent punch in the gut – and yet helpful in their existence in order to Debatewith this topic and constructive developments to promote.

  • WHO study: „Violence within relationships is the most widespread Violence against womenThis affects 30 per cent of all women worldwide“.
  • Study by the Federal Government (2012) to Violence in couple relationships. Link
  • When the last stages of escalation dug become. Victims report relationship violence. Link
  • The Statistics of the BKA on German violence (in relationships) in 2017. Link
  • You can't be a victim. Two still tell their stories. Podcast. Link
  • Male victims Violence in relationships is no longer a rarity in Germany. Link
  • Violence against men – a controversial area of discussion. Here is an article by the well-known men's rights activist Arne Hoffmann, which is directed against the common cliché/prejudice etc. and less against the violence as such. Link
  • For two months now, it has also been available in France prohibited, Children violent to educate. A slap in the face is therefore no longer a private decision, but a violation of the child recognised by criminal law. Link
  • Why Victims of domestic violencet just go but often stay. Link (subjective report)
  • Digital spying toole for private use – Excuse me, where can I find such a thing? Link
  • How can I as Neighbour in action kick? What can I do and what should I not do as a witness of domestic violence? Link
  • Gloria Allred fights in the USA for the right of women who have been influential and powerful men are abusedwere made. Link

Emotions and feelings

  • The difference that isn't a difference at all. Robots and People similarly feign feelings. Link
  • Loneliness. How people in Loneliness live. A photographic project. Link

Concepts for mediation

Part 1: The TA concept of passivity – passive thinking.

This concept originates from transactional analysis. It helps to structure counselling processes and generate questions.

  • The Concept of passive thinking we have found a detailed description and instructions for you in our here in the INKOVEMA blog. We look forward to your feedback!
  • Passivity is in the Elements of mediation as an independent element, so that you can also access www.elemente-der-mediation.de find further information.